When I do express my attraction to and appreciation of a woman’s beauty, I want it to be meaningful to her and myself.How about an article for guys about the appropriate, sincere, meaningful, simple ways to show a woman we’re physically attracted to her on first dates or other initial points of connection?Half the fun of going out is getting to know someone new, so allow yourself to let that happen organically." —Oliver B."Please don't compare us to your exes—out loud or even in your head.Sometimes horror stories about them can make for fun discussion, but don't ever bring your ex into the conversation if it's not called for.
In high school, my mom used to tell me to just be myself and act like a nice guy and that’s all it would take to get a good girlfriend.
The previous advice is one reason I went into dating coaching: every piece of advice from well-meaning people kept me single!
I wanted to research and try tips that actually worked, material that was grounded in reality, not misguided optimism (be yourself), empty platitudes (be nice), or outright falsehoods (buying love and sucking up).
If you're flowing with it and cool, we've got a winner.
If you seem offended by it, that's as far as we go." —Steve M."Girls should try to avoid pre-judging before a first date.